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A Tamil bride's father performs the kanyadaan
with the daughter sitting on his lap.
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North Indian weddings, the bride's relatives comprising the
younger lot gang up together to steal the groom's
shoes. The groom is given back his shoes only
after he pleases them with cash and gifts.
In many South Indian weddings there is a ceremony called Kashi
Yaatra. The groom here threatens to leave
for Kashi and renounce the world! The bride's father then
appeases him and promises to give his daughter's
hand. The ceremony in all its seriousness actually paves way
for some fun and frolic.
In
certain Hindu weddings, during the initial few
minutes of the actual weddding proceedings in the mandap,
the bride and groom do not get to see each other
and are parted by long curtain in between. At the
auspicious moment, the curtain is removed and
that is when they are supposed to have a first
glimpse of each other
In
Turkey, all the friends of the bride, write their names inside
her bridal shoes.According
to the belief, whosoever's name has
been rubbed off (after the wedding ceremony) and can not be
read anymore, will be the next to
get married soon enough.
In Bengali weddings Olu
olu is sound produced by raising
the tip of the tongue to the upper jaw. This is accompanied
by blowing of conches to welcome the groom. The
significance of such noise is to draw the attention
of all the guests on the arrival of the groom.
Rice
is a symbol of wealth and prosperity. And a daughter too is
considered as Goddess Lakshmi. So at the
time of leaving her maternal home as a bride, she will throw
rice into the portals, to symbolise
that richness and prosperity should continue even
after she leaves the house. |