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In one of the Kashmiri pre-wedding ceremonies, young
girls gather to hold a dupatta/
veil over the bride's head
after which the older relatives shower milk, rice, flowers
etc to bless her.
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In many Indian weddings a bride is carried/
accompanied to the mandap by her maternal uncle.
In Sudanese weddings, there is a tradition of
burning seven broomsticks
and throwing it to symbolise discarding such bad
habits that may endanger a married life.
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In a Gujarati wedding ceremony called Saubagyavati
bhava, all the female married relatives of
the bride whisper blessings into the right ear
of the bride
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In Sindhi weddings, metal pot
filled with oil and coins is kept aside. All
the elderly ladies gather around and one
by one anoint the bride's hair with oil. Only after this,
the bride takes her ceremonial bath and prepares
for the wedding.
To lighten the tension and mood of the couple
after hectic wedding ceremonies, a number of games are played
involving the active participation of the couple. The ring
game is very popular here. A ring is dropped
inside a container full of milk or any such liquid.
The couple at the opportune moment have to dig their
hands into the container and retreive the ring.
In the number of rounds that follow, it is believed, that
the one who retreives it the maximum
number of times will enjoy an upper hand!
In
almost all the Hindu weddings, the bride in one of the ceremonies
has to tread her foot on the grindstone,
to symbolise steadfastness and unshakable grit in her marital
life.
In Sindhi community, a day before the wedding,
the bride and the groom have to break
the cover of a small earthern pot
with the shoes they have been wearing the entire day, in one
single stroke! The same shoes have
to be worn by them the next day during the wedding. |